There was a part of me that was numb, and sometimes still is. Like I guarded my heart so securely and had triple locked it with a couple extra bolts and then a brick wall as well. And then when the outside world knocked, I just didn't care. That was definitely my flesh protecting me from feeling any pain, any pain that the world might cause.
And then something crazy sometimes happens. God shows you a small child holding their mama's hand, or a patient in the hospital reading their Bible because they don't know when their last breath will be, or having a reaallly good conversation with a friend that goes deeper then the usual "surface" talk. And then you feel. You feel something bigger then your own selfish self and feel someone else. You connect and feel compassion. You understand someone else, not fully, but the way God intended you to feel. Fully.
Have you ever gone a long period of time without crying? It's been 6 months since I last cried and I wonder what's wrong with me? I am a girl, shouldn't I be crying regularly? And does this mean I am not "feeling" correctly? I don't know. I know I have been realizing how numb I used to be and I don't want to be like that anymore, and those were the days I cried rivers. So maybe selfishness had something to do with it, or life circumstances. But whatever it was, I know I want to feel now, infinitely like the depth of Space.
Next time you hear of something horrible, sad and inhumane, ask yourself... do you feel that?